It’s time for The 2nd Talk

Rather than having one big “TALK” with my mom about how babies were made and how boys and girls were different and so on, I learned those things gradually over the years. My mom answered questions as I asked them, and I knew everything I need to know. But one day in elementary school, I came home telling my mom that some boys on the school bus had a condom and teased me that I probably didn’t know what it was. I assured them I did know but refused to tell them.

She asked me to tell her what I thought it was.
I said, “You blow it up and sit on it and it goes pbbbbbbbbbbth…

After she stopped laughing at the fact I thought it was a whoopie cushion, she realized it was time to talk about a few more things. In addition to talks with my mom, I learned more of what to expect from hearing friends talk about their experiences with puberty since most of them reached that stage WAY before I did. {Proof of my late-bloomer status: this photo from 6th grade. I’m the one in the middle. Yes, we’re all the same age.}

6th grade girls dance

But now I’m at a far different point in life. Among my friends and family, there is more talk of menopause than PMS. I’d still love to be happily surprised with pregnancy, but I wonder how I’ll know when menopause is coming.

I’ve heard of perimenopause, but I’m still pretty clueless. My mom had a hysterectomy decades ago because of severe endometriosis; my aunts and a few of my cousins have also faced surgical menopause. One of my cousins, younger than me, rather suddenly hit menopause a year or so ago — but my sister is much older than me and has not reached that stage yet.

I really have no idea what to expect — and that’s the idea behind Poise’s emphasis on urging women to have “The 2nd Talk.” In fact, they want one million women to pledge to have this talk by World Menopause Day on October 18. By joining the conversation, women will gain more menopause knowledge, support, and solutions.

When I knew what to expect in regards to hitting puberty, I felt comfortable about the changes I knew would come. I’m not ready for menopause just yet, but I would like to be prepared! Poise is introducing a line of over-the-counter products for use during menopause, designed to work naturally and provide comfort and relief from symptoms of menopause: Roll-On Cooling Gel and Body Cooling Towelettes to help you feel refreshed when a hot flash strikes, and other products to feel fresh and confident.

To kick off this product launch, BlogHer and Poise is offering a chance to win a $250 Visa Gift card! To be entered for a chance to win, just leave a comment answering the question, “When do you feel most confident?”

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104 responses to “It’s time for The 2nd Talk”

  1. Amber Avatar
    Amber

    ha ha, that picture totally cracks me up, mainly because it looks just like I did!!

    I feel most confident after a good long great run!

  2. Mami2jcn Avatar
    Mami2jcn

    I feel most confident when I’m having a good hair day and I’m dressed in clothing that fits me well.

  3. Harley Mom Avatar
    Harley Mom

    I feel most confident when I have my make-up on, my hair looking good and my husband by my side. 🙂

  4. Meredith B. Avatar
    Meredith B.

    I feel most confident after a really hard, long run when that runner’s high kicks in.

  5. Cindy Avatar

    Oh, you know…never. Not a confident person. Although, when my kids need me to, I can fake it pretty well.

  6. Rosa Avatar
    Rosa

    I am more confident since I joined Martial Arts. They do teach about being confident, and find an equilibrium in life.

  7. Mami2jcn Avatar
    Mami2jcn

    tweet–https://twitter.com/mami2jcn/status/228550810190114816

  8. Jessica To Avatar
    Jessica To

    I feel the most confident when I am well rested and wearing something that I think flatters my figure.

  9. Karen Avatar

    I feel most confident when I feel good inside. Healthy and strong makes me feel that way. Of course a great hair cut and awesome clothes help too. 🙂

  10. courtney b Avatar

    i feel confident after i do a morning jog or evening run

  11. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    i feel being confident just being my self!

  12. Amanda Sakovitz Avatar
    Amanda Sakovitz

    I feel most confident after getting my hair cut and colored!

    pokergrl8 at gmail.com

  13. amy c Avatar

    it may sound shallow, but i feel most confident when i’m feeling pretty. you know those days, when your clothes are fitting well (and are fashionable), when your hair is behaving, and you just feel good. usually i took my husband into taking me out to dinner to “show me off” ha! 😉

  14. Elena Avatar
    Elena

    I feel most confident after getting my hair done and visiting spa

  15. Tiffany Winner Avatar
    Tiffany Winner

    when i have a good hair day i feel more confident, thismomwins@gmail.com

  16. steph Avatar
    steph

    when i’m having a good hair day!

  17. Amy Avatar
    Amy

    I feel most confident when I’m with my family 🙂

  18. Jennifer Marie Avatar
    Jennifer Marie

    I feel most confident when I have just had a good day at work.

  19. Laura Avatar

    I feel most confident when I remember who I am in Christ, who I am to my husband, and who I am with those who know me best. Their opinions are far more important than the affirmation of dozen of facebook friends or bloggy commenters!

  20. Nicole Mendez Avatar
    Nicole Mendez

    I feel most confident when I remember who I am in Christ and when I’m doing what He’s called me to do, whether it’s homeschool my kids, mentoring and encouraging other women, blessing my husband or taking a long walk with my five year old and our Boston Terrier.

  21. Debbie B Avatar
    Debbie B

    i feel most confident when i am wearing nice clothes and have my hair and makeup fixed nicely

  22. Kelly D Avatar
    Kelly D

    I feel the most confident when I am wearing nice clothes, jewelry and have my hair done nicely.

  23. Alycia M Avatar
    Alycia M

    I feel most confident when I’m put together and know that I’m presentable – hair, makeup and clothing.

  24. Nicole Avatar
    Nicole

    I am most confident when I have had a good nights sleep

  25. Amy Tong Avatar

    I think it’s always nice to have older friends or sisters so we get a heads up on what will be next. But I guess life is not always perfect. Guess I’ll need to join in the 2nd talk to find out more…for now, that Roll-On cooling gel sounds really good.

    To answer your questions, I feel most confident when I do what I love, which is to cook for my family.

    Amy [at] utry [dot] it

  26. Amy Tong Avatar

    tweeted about this giveaway: https://twitter.com/uTry_it/status/230169083839143936

    Amy [at] utry [dot] it

  27. Alaine Avatar
    Alaine

    I feel the most confident w/ heels and a flowy dress
    family74014 at gmail dot com

  28. nataly carbonell Avatar
    nataly carbonell

    It is going to sound weird but I feel the most confident in my bathroom ;p but I also feel confident when I eat healthy and stay fit

    taty_bonell@hotmail.com

  29. Jessie C. Avatar
    Jessie C.

    I feel most confident when I feel fit, am dressed well and appropriate.
    tcarolinep at gmail dot com.

  30. Ellen b Avatar
    Ellen b

    I love when I get a great haircut and we go out

  31. Ellen B Avatar
    Ellen B

    https://twitter.com/elliebunny24/status/230874227299975168
    had to rt because the # was messed up

  32. Judy B. Avatar
    Judy B.

    Poise has hit the nail on the head for me. My confidence is all about information, knowing what to expect, preparing, and support.

  33. Erika Avatar

    I feel the most confident after my husband compliments me on my outfit- he doesn’t usually say much, so when he does, it means a lot!

    chambanachik@gmail.com

  34. ANGEL JACKLYN Avatar
    ANGEL JACKLYN

    DURING THE FEW TIMES I’M ACTUALLY TALKING AS WELL AS I WALKING =)

  35. Tina M Avatar
    Tina M

    When I have my makeup on

  36. sy Avatar
    sy

    I feel confident when I do a good job at work or cook a nice meal. Thanks for the review and giveaway.
    songyueyu at gmail

  37. Kerry Avatar
    Kerry

    I feel the most confident in a new outfit.

  38. Pat Avatar
    Pat

    I feel confident when I am doing things I know I rock at doing – and when I get compliments later its a major confidence boost!

  39. carmen Avatar
    carmen

    I feel most confident when I’m wearing an outfit I know is flattering on me and have had time to straighten my hair and put on a little make-up. Only takes about 10 minutes, but the difference it makes in how I feel is worth 10 times as much!

  40. Deanna G. Avatar
    Deanna G.

    I feel most confident after a really tough work out!

  41. Melinda Avatar
    Melinda

    When I’m all dressed up and feeling sexy

  42. Linda Avatar
    Linda

    When I achieve a big goal I feel very confidant

  43. Tian A. Avatar
    Tian A.

    I feel most confident when I’m wearing scarf.

  44. injaynesworld Avatar

    I feel most confident when I feel strong and accomplished. This can be a matter of putting out a good piece of writing or having a great ride on my horse.

  45. Kellie Rose Wilson Avatar
    Kellie Rose Wilson

    When wearing a new outfit!

  46. Nicole Larsen Avatar
    Nicole Larsen

    I feel most confident after getting my waxing done and a pedicure!

  47. jennifer horn Avatar
    jennifer horn

    I fell more confident when my husband tells me how great I look, especially after having 3 kids.

  48. Heather Avatar
    Heather

    I’m most confident during my gym routine. I’m sweaty and have no make-up on, but once I hit my stride I feel amazing!

  49. Kelly Massman Avatar

    I feel confident when I smile! Thanks for a chance to win and have a great day!
    kmassmanATgmailDOTcom

  50. Ashley Tucker Avatar
    Ashley Tucker

    I feel most confident when I have on cute clothes!!
    ajoy1332 at yahoo dot com

  51. Julie Snider Avatar

    I feel most confident in the morning, when I first wake up to a new day!

  52. Laura Jacobson Avatar
    Laura Jacobson

    I feel most confident when I get all dressed up for a night on the town! Haha..doesnt happen often, but always feels good!

  53. margaret brown Avatar
    margaret brown

    I feel more comfortable when I come home from a long day at work to hang out with my animals since I have no one else to hang out with.

  54. Michelle S. Avatar
    Michelle S.

    I feel most confident when I have learned and mastered a new skill.

  55. Amy Avatar

    I feel most confident when I am prepared for the day as a teacher, with plans, presentations, and copies in place ready to go. oh yeah, and hair, that has to be in place too!

  56. Betty C Avatar
    Betty C

    I’m not normally a very confident person but I’m at my best when I look like I know what I’m doing. The appropriate clothing that fits well and a great hair style go a long way.

  57. Ellie W Avatar
    Ellie W

    I’m most confident when I’m out with my grandsons and everyone mistakes them for my children.
    Thanks for the giveaway!
    eswright18 at gmail dot com

  58. ewhatley Avatar
    ewhatley

    I feel confident now because all the worse things in life are behind me, I survived all of them and getting older is really fun.

  59. Maria Cantu Avatar
    Maria Cantu

    When I go cruising.

  60. anonymous Avatar
    anonymous

    I feel most confident when I’ve succeeded at something that I didn’t think I could. altern147 [at] yahoo [dot] com

  61. meredith Avatar
    meredith

    I feel most confident when I am prepared and well rested

  62. Jill L Avatar
    Jill L

    I feel the most confident when I’m with my friends.

  63. Sarah L Avatar
    Sarah L

    I feel most confident when I’m in the swimming pool teaching my Arthritis Class.
    Thanks for the contest.

  64. angie lilly Avatar

    I am most confident when I know I am not alone. Having my hubby always there by my side supporting my decisions and cheering me on in everything I do is a blessing!

  65. Norma Avatar
    Norma

    Most confident when I feel happy

  66. anash Avatar
    anash

    i feel most confident when my clothes are crisp and clean! Thanks for a super giveaway!

  67. anash Avatar
    anash

    Tweeted:
    https://twitter.com/anashct3/status/239205325000024064
    Thanks for the chance to win!
    email: anashct1 [at] yahoo [dot] com

  68. Theresa Avatar
    Theresa

    I’m most confident when I have a great hair cut and color, and look my best! It also helps my confidence when my honey tells me I’m beautiful and sexy!

  69. Lisa Hayes Avatar
    Lisa Hayes

    I feel most confident when people listen to what I have to say. I am finding that I have more confidence and am more outgoing in my 40’s because people actually listen when I have an idea or suggestion and I get positive feedback.