Vintage summertime recipe for kids

When I made my recipe binder, I consolidated my cookbooks, getting rid of most of them. But I kept a 1979 PTA fund-raising cookbook from my elementary school; it’s so old now it’s vintage cool. ;)

That was back when I looked like this as I headed off to school with my Star Wars lunch box. Look at that pose: I was rocking that Dorothy Hamill ‘do (and footwear that looks remarkably like bowling shoes; what the heck?).

school day 1979

Anyhoo… in that little recipe book, I found this oldie but goodie, perfect for the rapidly approaching summertime:

RECIPE FOR PRESERVING CHILDREN

Take 1 large grassy field
1/2 dozen children (all sizes)
3 small dogs
1 narrow strip of brook (pebbly if possible)

Mix children with dogs and empty into field, stirring continually. Sprinkle field with flowers. Pour brook over pebbles. Cover all with a deep blue sky and bake in hot sun.

When all the children are well browned they may be removed from field. Will be found just right for setting away to cool in the bathtub.


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Learning what {mothering} really is

For almost three years now, I’ve mothered Lindsey. I’ve cooked meals + washed clothes + set up dentist appointments + driven her to activities + made her clean her room + took care of her when she was sick. Lindsey knew she missed out in her early years on some of what a mother does, but it never occurred to her that “mothering” means those things, but far more.

She and Ken quickly developed a good father-daughter relationship, and that has grown and deepened. She doesn’t always like all his fathering (and protecting), but she loves her Daddy. She and I, on the other hand, easily anger each other, and some days just being in the same house is hard.

Over these three years, though, there have been a few times when she has come to me to talk, to hug, to cry. We’ve had some meaningful talks. On those rare times, it feels like a mother-daughter relationship should. Those times feel good — but still so rare.

And I wonder if my influence matters at all; I wonder if she’ll ever understand what mothering really is.

Ambulance Ride

Saturday morning, just before a JROTC performance at the local Air Force base for Academy Day, Lindsey woke up surrounded by EMTs after passing out and hitting her head on the concrete floor, and immediately cried, “I want my Mama!!!” She kept on, and told them my name, and I had no idea why the speaker at this event was calling my name in front of these hundreds of people and cadets and military men and senators, but I stood and went up front and they took me to her. I helped calm her down, I answered medics’ questions, and I rode in the ambulance with her (as Ken followed behind in the car).

Several hours and several tests later, she was sent home from the hospital with a big bump on her noggin (and an even bigger headache), and she is fine.

At some point in the midst of all the chaos that has given me more gray hair, it occurred to me that it was me she asked for. Not Ken. Not anyone else. She asked for her mama, and she meant me.

So I think, maybe we really are making progress.

Maybe she’s learning what a mother really is.

Multitudes on Monday

1264 – dinner with all 3 kids, plus our soon-to-be daughter (in law)
1265 – helping stamp and seal Brandon and Diane’s wedding invitations
1266 – serving again at the soup kitchen
1276 – watching hummingbirds while I sit on the back porch
1277 – Ken rescued a nuthatch from inside the bird feeder
1278 – both girls are excited about signing up for fall homeschool enrichment classes (even Lindsey!)
1279 – my Fun Mama post was featured on BlogHer
1280 – finishing our homeschool year
1281 – a new (used) car
1282 – Lindsey is okay
1283 – she asked for me
1284 – I don’t freak out in a crisis
1285 – my own mom, and the example she set for me in what mothering means

Thank you to all my mom-friends — and my own mom — who inspire me.


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A week of birds, birds, birds! (And my new ‘do)

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Our hummingbirds are back! Last weekend I hung a feeder and bought a colorful hanging plant for the back porch, trying to give the hummers a better chance of finding the feeder. The next morning, I got buzzed when I took Lacy outside, and this week I’ve seen them coming and going, even while I’m out on the porch. I know we have both males and females already. When I see them coming more frequently, or males starting their fighting, I’ll hang another feeder, too.

Pigs really do fly. Our bird feeder is evidence of this fact. Our piggy birdies eat every bit of seed in our feeder in just a few days. The house finches have been back in full force; one day we counted at least seven on the feeder at once.

Birds we’ve seen at our feeder this month include:

  • house finches
  • cardinals
  • eastern towhees (they sing, “Drink your tea!” so I love them especially!)
  • goldfinches, now wearing their bright summer coats
  • downy woodpeckers and red-bellied woodpeckers
  • chickadees and titmice (or is it titmouses?)
  • chipping sparrows
  • white-breasted nuthatches

BirdFeeder

One little nuthatch had a bit TOO close of an encounter with the bird feeder. Ken re-filled it yesterday {again!}, and found a nuthatch inside the feeder — a little too eager to get at the seed! It was okay, and must not have been there long, but I’m glad we didn’t wait days to refill it or the little thing might’ve died in there.

Didn’t Kathryn do a lovely job on her nature notebook page this week?

Goldfinch Journal Page

I said I wouldn’t allow any games on my iPad (because it’s mine, all mine!) but I did make a few exceptions for educational games. Kathryn loooooves Stack the States, a geography game I found by recommendation from Tricia (aka HodgePodge Mom).

This week we finished up all of our history readings for the school year, including The Story of Inventions by Frank Bachman. Our last two chapters were on the invention of the computer, and the history of space travel. I loved this quote by Dr. Wernher von Braun, the scientist who headed up the development of the U.S. space program:

In our modern world, people seem to feel that science has somehow made “religious ideas” seem old-fashioned. Nevertheless, I think science has a real surprise for the skeptics. Science, for instance, tells us that nothing in nature, not even the tiniest particle, can disappear without a trace. Think about that for a moment. Nature does not know extinction, only change. Now if God applies this fundamental principle to the most tiny and humble parts of the universe, does it not make sense to assume that He also applies it to the masterpiece of His creation — the human soul?

Yep.

Guess what? We have completed our 180 required days of school! Kathryn keeps trying to tell me that means she’s a middle-schooler now {breathe in, breathe out}, but I’m totally in denial and told her she’s absolutely not a 6th grader til we start the new school year.

We will keep on at a very relaxed “unofficial” pace through the summer to finish up math, and do the few remaining states in our U.S. States notebook. But for Lindsey, I need to get BUSY making plans for her homeschool year, because we’ll have to start it this summer in order to do all that she needs to get done.

Our church only does GA’s (Girls in Action) through 5th grade, so Wednesday was Kathryn’s last night ever! The 5th graders get charms instead of badges, so they received the charms they earned for the year and celebrated with ice cream sundaes.

Week 051112PHOTOS IN COLLAGE: 1) Ready for hummingbirds; 2) Geography on the iPad; 3) GA’s charms in lieu of badges; 4) I take too many photos of Lacy sleeping; 5) helping Brandon and Diane address and seal wedding invitations; 6) Kathryn working at the soup kitchen.

I’M INSPIRED BY… serving again at the soup kitchen. There is some craziness in my life right now, and this is a reality check I need. I hope as we continue working there, we’ll find ways to be more useful and figure out more specific ways we might serve or bless the people who come for a meal. Want more inspiration? Read some of the posts from the Compassion bloggers who have been in Tanzania all week.

A PHOTO TO SHARE:
I have a new ‘do. I like my hair LONG or SHORT (not at all in-between), and since it takes entirely too long to get it long, I decided to just go short again. Really short. ;)

(Reminded why I don’t like self-portraits: lens angle makes my nose look HUGE!)
New Do

—> HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY, all you sweet mama-friends! {hugs}

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- Kris’ Weekly Wrap-Up
- Mary’s Collage Friday
- Dawn’s Camera Phone Friday


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Adoptive Mother’s Prayers

It’s nearly Mother’s Day, so what better to share than a list of prayers for mothers? In this case, it’s a list of prayers specifically for the adoptive mom, but really, these prayers apply to any mom. I wrote “An Adoptive Mother’s Prayers” to go along with my “10 Days of Adoption” series; I’m sharing here on my blog to make it easy to bookmark or pin, but you can download a pdf version if you prefer.

Adoptive Mother's PrayersIn the day to day challenges and frustrations of parenting, help me never lose sight of eternity; help me always keep my eyes on Jesus. (Hebrews 12:1-2)

Each morning, give me a word to sustain the weary; waken my ears to hear from you throughout each day. (Isaiah 50:4)

Help me remember, when I’m facing spiritual battles, that the One who is in me is greater than the one who is in the world. (1 John 4:4)

Bring my children word of Your unfailing love, and show them the way they should go. (Psalm 143:8)

Give me abounding love and keen insight as I parent these children. Show me what is of real eternal value, and through me, show my children what – and Who – Love is. (Philippians 1:9-10)

Father God, I pray that You sanctify my children with ever-increasing glory, and that you draw them into a deeper faith and experience with Jesus. (2 Corinthians 3:18)

Reveal more of Your nature and character to my children, and help them base their self-worth on YOU.

Clothe me in compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, patience, forgiveness, and above all, love. Let the peace of Jesus rule my heart and home, and let that be one of the many ways my children come to know and love you. (Colossians 3:12-15)

Despite whatever past circumstances have told them, show my children that they are Your workmanship, created in Jesus for good works, which You planned for them long ago. (Ephesians 2:10)

Give me a steadfast mind and keep me in perfect peace, with my mind on You, trusting You to do the work as I parent. (Isaiah 26:3)

Lord Jesus, help me abide in You daily. (John 15:5)

I pray that I would love, not merely in word or speech, but in deed and truth. Daily, and even moment by moment. (1 John 3:18)

Give me the grace to speak edifying, encouraging words. (1 Thessalonians 5:11)

Prepare my heart to pour out for the lives – and hearts and souls – of my children. (Lamentations 2:19)

Strengthen and guard my marriage, and help us to keep our marriage centered on You, our Rock, so that no storm may bring it down. (Matthew 7:25)

Father, show my children that You are mighty to save; that You rejoice and sing over them! (Zephaniah 3:17)

Make me quick to listen, eager to hear whatever is important to my children. Make me slow to anger, and cautious in choosing my words. (James 1:19-20)

Teach my children the beautiful truth that You have good plans for them, which include a future filled with hope. (Jeremiah 29:11)

See also:
- My Prayer Notebook
- Prayers for Parenting
- Prayers for My Husband


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The day God gave me an elephant.

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Right now Jolanthe and the rest of the Compassion Bloggers are in Tanzania. As I’m following along (you can follow along with them, too!), I’m thinking again about Africa and the mission trip I took in 2009 to Botswana and South Africa with a group from my church.

………………………………….

I never thought I’d want to go on a mission trip.
But God changed my heart. And now I long to go on another trip.

I never would have expected to go to Africa.
But God gave me this trip, the people, the lessons learned. The whole experience was a gift.

I NEVER would have expected to go on Safari.
But God is an extravagant giver.

It’s a long way to Africa, and we didn’t know if we’d ever have another opportunity to go there, so for one day, before heading home, our group went on safari at a game preserve in South Africa.

Driving in, before we’d even “officially” arrived, we saw kudu, impala, zebra, and giraffe.

The lodge was spectacular: wonderful accommodations, delicious food, great personnel. After the week we’d spent in the city, we were finally surrounded by what looked the Africa of my imagination, complete with monkeys and real Africa-looking trees.

We went to our rooms to get settled. The rooms were really individual cabins, with a true thatched roof, fireplace, and a view out on hills where we watched zebra and wildebeest graze. Walking through our room, I got teary-eyed, thinking about how my God was blessing me. Wondering why He was blessing me, of all people.

I never have trouble accepting God as Creator: huge and powerful and holy. But He feels too BIG to care about “little” things. I never expected Him to go to such great lengths to teach me that He is involved in the tiniest of details of my life.

We headed back to the lodge for lunch. Again, I was just overwhelmed at what I was experiencing.

Then, God gave me an elephant.

An elephant.

Here I was — a girl who grew up watching and absorbing all the National Geographic and PBS nature shows I could, learning about all the great variety of animals in the world but NEVER dreaming I’d see something like an elephant, one of my favorite animals, outside of a zoo. But an elephant walked by, and it looked at me.

Elephant!

I was my typical, excited self, and couldn’t believe I was looking at a wild elephant, walking 20 or 30 feet from me. As the realization of this hit me, I started to cry. This was, to me, nothing short of a miracle. A divine gift. If we hadn’t seen any other animals the whole time, I would have been completely content. I ran down the boardwalk to an observation area that overlooks a watering hole, and watched the elephant drink, play, and bathe. I’m not one to cry in front of other people, but I couldn’t help it; I just kept crying at the wonder of it all. At the wonder of GOD!

I finally composed myself enough to eat, and as we sat outside having lunch, we saw a group of baboons up on the hill. First the big leader, checking things out, then the rest of his group. Our South African friends identified some of the birds we’d been seeing, like an iridescent blue-colored glossy starling. I wish I could’ve gotten a good photo of the birds we saw there.

We headed back to our rooms to rest until time to go out on safari that evening. Our friend who was staying in the room just past ours said he’d just seen a monkey run off of our porch. We laughed and said, “Good thing we closed all the doors like they told us to!” But when we got in our room, we saw that the monkey had been in there, opened our tea caddy, and stolen (and spilled) packs of sugar! Turns out he’d come in a small window over the toilet, which we hadn’t thought to close. How funny! So we cleaned up the spilled sugar, made ourselves some tea, and closed the window over the toilet!

One of our team members, who has been to Africa and on safari many times before, told us that morning that he wanted to be on the vehicle with us to see our reactions. As I said before, I was VERY enthusiastic about everything! I don’t think I disappointed him with my excitement level. As soon as we had set out, and I leaned forward to say,

Hey Jeff!
(pause for response)
Guess what…
We’re in AFRICA!
(another pause)
And guess what else…
We’re on SAFARI!!!

the view

We drove around looking for critters.
Soon, our guide found lions! LIONS!!!

resting lion

Golden light, golden grass, golden lion, and I was taking pictures of two handsome lion brothers who work as a team. Big, powerful, lion brothers. They were lazing about, and almost looked cuddly. Seemed like you could just go scratch that big ol’ mane and give ‘em a belly rub. Jeff reminded me: that’s what we’ll be able to do in heaven. Can you imagine?

Eventually we moved on, saw more critters, then stopped for a “sun-downer.” How lovely! A little biltong (African beef jerky), crackers, and a sparkly (non-alcoholic) beverage while we watched the sunset over the African plains. The guides even pulled out a table and tablecloth to set up for us. Unbelievable: that was the word I keep saying about everything; I just couldn’t grasp that this was all really happening. It felt like a dream!

sundowner

After the sunset, we loaded back up, found a big herd of buffalo, and I had the first bit of disappointment: these were not water buffalo, but cape buffalo, which meant the Veggie Tales silly song I had planned to sing was not applicable. A few of the giant hairy things stared us down, but I don’t think any of them got fully into what our guide called “the death stare.” That’s a good thing, I’m thinking. ;)

Just before it was completely dark, a family of elephants crossed nearby. I loved seeing the babies following along, flanked before and behind by moms, aunts, and older siblings.

Soon, it was dark. No streetlights, no nearby cities, just the almost full moon. DARK.

Our guide drove the dirt road while sweeping a spotlight all around in search of a leopard (which proved to be elusive). Then we came upon another set of brother lions lying right in the middle of the road! These guys had been hurt in a territory dispute with the first set of lions we saw, but our guide said they seemed to be doing better. We drove off-road to go around them, and stopped near to see them closer. Then the lion closest to us looked RIGHT at me and Ken, and our guide said (for the first time that day), “No one make any sudden movements.”

Not a problem. Gulp.

After a few tense moments, the lion broke eye contact, but he did get up, and walked to the other side (MY side!) of the vehicle. This is not the best shot of the lion but let me just point out that the white part I chose not to crop out of the right side of the photo is my seat! In the very open (see sun-downer photo above!) vehicle, I might add.

lion mouth

After that excitement, we continued back towards the lodge. The temperature dropped significantly once night fell, and I was cold, but it felt great. We saw a big eagle owl, a chameleon, and this rather large (four TON) fellow walking down the middle of the road towards us!

elephant approaching

Our guide had turned off the vehicle, as they always did when we stopped to see an animal. But the elephant kept coming, so our guide started the vehicle and backed up a bit, to send the elephant a message that we were not going to be a problem for him. But the elephant kept coming. Our guide tried to start the vehicle again — but it didn’t start.

GULP.

The elephant was REALLY close at this point. So we all sat very, very still, and very, very quiet — and did not need our guide to tell us to do so!

It took the elephant a few moments of standing close enough to touch the vehicle before he decided what he wanted to do.

We could see him thinking, swinging his head a bit.

He opted for munching upon a nearby tree limb. We all breathed a sigh of relief. Then our guide proceeded to tell us that this elephant was in musth, which means he had raging hormones that often result in highly aggressive behavior. We watched him a bit longer before heading on our merry way.

During our potentially dangerous lion and elephant encounters, I wasn’t afraid. I felt that God was doing all this to give me a gift beyond my wildest imagination, so I really wasn’t worried about being eaten by a lion or stomped on by an elephant. That’s really saying something, because my tendency is to be very fearful.

The next morning, we went out before all the animals were awake; when we saw this sunrise, we stopped and sang “How Great is Our God.” Because He is!

African sunrise

We saw more zebras, a big bull giraffe, and more impala and kudu. Our guides tracked a lioness, but never found her. I was happy just to be driving around in the gorgeous African outdoors.

zebras

We stopped for morning tea, and had yummy biscotti and little pastries to accompany it. I drank tea on safari in Africa. (That is one of the coolest sentences I have ever typed.)

zebras

Never underestimate God’s power. love. tenderness. extravagance.

He is beyond our comprehension.

“Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever.” Ephesians 3:20-21


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Our Week: Interest-Led Nature Study and More!

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LAST WEEK:
We finished up Kathryn’s semester of enrichment classes, finally came to the end of the book Freckles (which we loooooved!), and Kathryn and I served at a soup kitchen! I’ve looked far and wide for a ministry opportunity where kids were allowed to serve, and this one dropped right in my lap. Neither of us knew what to expect, but we loved it. Kathryn was a great helper, and was complimented by the staff about her ability to follow directions well. She even willingly helped wash dishes! I cooked 50+ grilled cheese sandwiches; not something I’ve ever been able to say before! Right now this place serves two meals a week, and we’re on the schedule to serve two more times this month, and hope to continue serving at least twice a month.

LIFE/HOMESCHOOL THIS WEEK:
We’ve had all sorts of unplanned interest-led kinds nature study going on: birds, fruit trees, and the crows and small king snake I posted about earlier this week.

Week of 050412(history reading, pitiful Lacy, baby apples, and road trip dreaming)

This year we finally have apples on both apple trees! We have two apples trees: one for yellow apples and one for green apples, but we were beginning to wonder if they would cross-pollinate since they are different varieties. Maybe they just haven’t been mature enough. I’m eager for them to get more prolific in their apple-making. Homemade apple pies made from apples in our own back yard = pretty close to perfection. ;)

Our peach tree is very prolific and seems to be happy overall, but we can’t keep the critters from destroying the peaches. We’ve yet to get one actual edible peach yet. Even though Georgia is the peach state, we can’t buy the proper spray without an agricultural license.

It’s baby bird time! We’ve seen baby cardinals being fed in the dogwood tree outside our living room window, and practicing flying around in the backyard. We think their nest is in a big spruce-looking tree.

Lacy the fast-running WonderDog hurt her foot this week. She is one tough girl; I’ve seen her crash and slide when cutting a fast turn in wet grass, and heard her smack a foot or tail into the wooden play set, but in all those instances, she just keeps on running. This time, though, she stopped and limped over to me. I examined it, but didn’t see anything obvious, so we just kept watching it for the day. She limped a lot the rest of the day, and didn’t even bark at the FedEx truck (which is really saying something!). But by the next day, she was almost fully recovered, so I think she just bruised it.

Lindsey is talking about looking forward to being home for school (just three more weeks), and is still on the hunt for a part-time job. Ken and Kathryn have a wild idea to do a major road trip, and while I admit that does sound interesting, it also sounds like a whole lot more time with my butt in a car than I’d like! Since Lindsey won’t be tied to the public school schedule, these sorts of adventures could actually be possible.

A PHOTO TO SHARE:
One of my favorite flowers: a peony, just opening.

pink peony - April 2012

And this shrub. It smells AMAZING but I have no idea what it is. Anybody know???
mystery shrub

MY FAVORITE THING THIS WEEK (one of them, anyway):
Sunday afternoon, Kathryn asked if she could do some more reading in her George Washington Carver book. Just because she wanted to. Have I mentioned how much I love living books? She really likes the “Heroes of History” series.

As of this evening, the girls will both be gone for the weekend, so I’m looking forward to spending time with Ken. What are you looking forward to this weekend?

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- Kris’ Weekly Wrap-Up
- Mary’s Collage Friday
- Dawn’s Camera Phone Friday


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Learning with MawMaw & Papa

These photos are from back in 2008, when Kathryn was just 7 years old.

As homeschoolers, we’ve all heard it… what about socialization? I’ve thought about this often over the years, and there is one specific day that stands out in my memory: a day we spent with with Ken’s grandparents, who live about two hours south of us.

Aren’t they adorable?

MawMaw and Papa

MawMaw and Papa have been married nearly sixty-five years, and have lived in this same house, built by Papa, that whole time. In this house, they have raised four children, loved on lots of grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and eaten a whole lot of world-famous (almost!) biscuits that MawMaw makes from scratch every day! They are some of the sweetest, kindest, most Jesus-loving people I have ever known, and I am so blessed to have married into their family.

You can’t go to MawMaw’s house without being fed. I think it’s some sort of Southern grandmother law in a book I haven’t been given yet, since I’m not yet a grandmother. Anyway, on this day, as any day we visit them, we ate dinner (that’s lunch for the city folks) made by MawMaw and blessed by Papa. When we were stuffed, we sat out on the porch for a while sipping on sweet tea. Brandon and Ken took turns riding Papa’s gas-powered scooter while Kathryn enjoyed a chat with Papa.

Kathryn and Papa on the swing

At Ken’s request, MawMaw played a little for us on the piano (she is the piano player for her church).

MawMaw playing piano

Than, at my request, she showed us all some really great old family photos. I was blessed by listening to MawMaw’s stories about her family, and about what it was like when she was a little girl. She and I continued talking and looking at pictures; meanwhile the others went out to the porch and Ken and Papa played guitar. Kathryn and Brandon listened (and sometimes sang along) as they swang.

Papa and Ken play guitar

Later, MawMaw gave us girls a little crochet lesson: not enough so that I can do it, but enough to make me want to learn how. The baby blankets she makes are beautiful!

MawMaw shows us how to crochet

Papa loves to garden, so he showed us the tomatoes and peppers he’s already planted. (That rusty old bus behind Papa is a story in itself!)

Papa and the bus

On this day spent with MawMaw and Papa, Kathryn learned far more than she would’ve in a classroom. It is far more important to me that my child can relate people of ALL ages, rather than a room full of kids exactly the same age. I’m so glad we homeschool, so that days like this are more frequent than they would be otherwise.


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Two Great eBook Recommendations!

Frumps to Pumps – a motivational devotion by Sarah Mae:

I received a copy of this ebook in exchange for an honest review. I expected it to be good, because Sarah Mae is an insightful and entertaining writer, but I didn’t really think I’d get much from it. I don’t need to be convinced to avoid frumpiness, and I already get dressed every day — in the morning, even! I’m no longer mom to a toddler who makes daily showering a big challenge (though I do remember those days), and I’d say that’s who this book is primarily geared towards.

However…
I was surprised at the “deep” insights I gained. Day 11 of this twenty day challenge, for instance, deals with being too tired to get dressed, but it spoke deeply to me about aging (which I’m beginning to have to face as I realize this body is no longer 20) and about my dad’s illness. Sarah Mae reminded me that this is not my forever body. And though my dad is trapped in a body that has begun to betray him in a multitude of ways due to ALS, he will not always be weighed down by the earthly body he has now.

In another day’s challenge, I was reminded in a way I really needed to hear, that I have freedom in Jesus; I do not have to squeeze myself into a bunch of self-imposed rules.

Sarah Mae encourages us to embrace “pretty” (on the outside, but far more importantly on the inside), to be productive (which is more easily done when not wearing bunny slippers), and to do it all for His glory.

I highly recommend Frumps to Pumps! You can buy it in a kindle (or Nook) version or a pdf version.

[UPDATE: I've seen some people write negatively about Sarah Mae's book because she suggests buying new dangly earrings or a new shade of eye shadow. These are just suggestions, not "required" to meet the challenges. If you don't want to buy anything new, you certainly don't need to. And if you do, there's no need to spend big! The heart behind these ideas is to just get thinking about things differently, and to feel good about yourself.]

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4 Moms of 35+ Kids Answer Your Parenting Questions – another ebook I received in exchange for an honest review.

4 Moms 35 Kids

I don’t have what would be considered a large family, so I wasn’t sure how much useful information I’d get out of this book, but since we do hope to have more kids, I thought I’d just do the review so I could file away mental notes for the “if” of becoming a big family. Once again, I was surprised at how much I got out of this book!

If you are parent to an only child, you can still certainly learn from tips on how to be more patient, how to help children behave in church, teaching age-appropriate chores, and how and when to talk about sex. These are just a few of the topics the four moms share from their 70+ years of parenting experience!

If you have more than one child, you’ll find even more helpful ideas — on topics ranging from teaching kids to get along, to managing outings with little ones, to dealing with “fairness” among siblings. Really, if you are a parent to ANY number of kids, you will find useful information in this ebook!

You have the option of purchasing 4 Moms of 35+ Kids Answer Your Parenting Questions in pdf form or in a kindle version.


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