As of today, I’ve been a mama for twelve years. Kathryn is my youngest child, but she’s my first, and the only one who literally grew beneath my heart.

I love that about her.

My love for Kathryn, our relationship, is what made me want to expand our family. She is a very large reason why we adopted, and from day one she welcomed Lindsey into her heart as if she’s known her all her life, as if I’d given birth to them both.

I love that about her.

Parenting Kathryn challenges me, because she is so much like me. I’ve lost count of the times I’ve said something to correct her and realized that I could be talking to myself. It’s part of the reason we butt heads sometimes, but it’s also why we are so close.

I love that about her.

This girl is deeply empathetic and a natural-born nurturer. She’ll gladly do anything she can to cheer up someone who is down, or take care of someone who isn’t feeling well. Even as a toddler, if I didn’t feel good, she would give me extra hugs and kisses, and bring a blanket to cover me up on the couch, and even give me one of her favorite stuffed animals to snuggle. She is wonderful and patient with small children, and she will be a kind and loving mother someday.

I love that about her.

And that laugh.
When she laughs — really laughs — you can’t help but laugh with her. It’s contagious.

I love that about her.

Although there are times we make each other plenty mad, she trusts me, and she talks to me about things on her heart. Hard things, sometimes. I am her mother, but I am her friend, too.

I love that about her.

Kathryn is a creative girl. Sewing. Knitting. Crafting. Painting. I haven’t taught her as much as I’d like, but we are learning much of it together.

I love that about her.

I’m in no hurry for this child of mine to grow up. In fact, I could probably hyperventilate if I thought about it too long. She is growing into a beautiful young lady, even more beautiful on the inside than she is on the outside.

And I love that about her, too.

I am forever thankful for the gift of being Mama to this precious girl.

Jamie

Wife, mom, J-ma. Introvert who enjoys good books, sunshine, and authentic conversation. Often seen with a steaming mug of tea in hand – unless it’s lost yet again in the microwave. Read more »