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Life is short

12 May, 2010; Filed Under: family & home

Yesterday, my sister’s mom died after a seven-month battle with pancreatic cancer. Sandy wanted to come home to my sister’s house, and had asked that when she passed, her husband would be holding one hand, and my sister — her only child — would be holding the other hand. That’s just how it happened, only hours after hospice brought her to Debbie’s house. I am heartbroken for my sister, my nieces, and for Sandy’s husband. (Their 25th wedding anniversary was just last week.) Cancer is not kind.

I’m making a slideshow for Sandy’s memorial, and came across this old photo. It makes me smile; she looks like she is simply enjoying life. And that’s what we ALL should be doing. Every. Single. Day. 

Sandy - enjoying the moment

Recently, I have heard several stories of freak accidents, like a woman who died after falling on an escalator at the mall. I know several people who are currently battling cancer. Every one of these stories is heartbreaking — but they all remind me that life is short. Tomorrow is not promised to any of us. I have always been able to easily imagine worst-case scenarios; going to Africa last year was just about the scariest thing I’ve ever done, but I finally realized that if it is my time to go — if the number of my days is done — then I will go, whether I am flying over the ocean, staring down a bull elephant in musth, or just sitting on my couch at home. Oddly, this is very freeing, if I can get my mind wrapped around it, because if it is NOT my time to go, then I won’t.

I pray that the LORD will teach me to number my days carefully (Psalm 90:12a) and to truly make the most of the time (Ephesians 5:16a).

**Sandy’s family has set up a memorial page to raise funds for pancreatic cancer research. If you would like to contribute, you can do so here.

Jamie

Wife, mama, homeschooler, dog-wrangler. Introvert who finds joy in good books, sunshine, and authentic conversation. Fitness enthusiast and strength coach. Often seen with a steaming mug of tea in hand.

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Christina
Christina
12 May, 2010 4:47 pm

I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. Cancer is so tough. Yesterday would have been my father’s 63rd birthday; he passed away from Leukemia five years ago on May 25.

Thank you for reminding us to embrace our days and not to take them for granted!
.-= Christina´s last blog ..Meat gloves to keep away meat germs =-.

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Donna Lee
Donna Lee
12 May, 2010 4:59 pm

I am so sorry for your family’s loss. I agree Cancer is not kind. Also Thanks for reminding me to embrace everyday.

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Melissa
Melissa
12 May, 2010 5:18 pm

In response to the question, “What is the greatest surprise you have found about life?”, Billy Graham responded without hesitation, “The brevity of it,” Time moves so quickly, and no matter who we are or what we have done, the time will come when our lives will be over. As Jesus said, “As long as it is day, we must do the work of him who sent me. Night is coming, when no one can work” (John 9:4).

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Richele
Richele
12 May, 2010 5:50 pm

That is a beautiful picture of your sister’s mother and a poignant reminder to be good stewards of the time we are given.
.-= Richele´s last blog ..A Russian-American Homeschool =-.

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Michelle
Michelle
12 May, 2010 7:58 pm

What a beautiful smile she had. I am so sorry for your family’s loss.

It is a sobering reminder to do all we can to serve Christ today and love our families and others.
.-= Michelle´s last blog ..A Mother’s Day Blessing =-.

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Ronnica
Ronnica
12 May, 2010 9:37 pm

Sorry to hear of your family’s loss. What a great reminder to live each day to its fullest.
.-= Ronnica´s last blog ..Hug-a-Lurker Day 2010 =-.

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