Our Week: Fun Mama Points = Heart Ties
SPRING BREAK!
With Ken and Lindsey out of the country on a mission trip to the Dominican Republic (returning tomorrow!), this week has been all about being a Fun Mama. We started the week with a sleep over, and I took Kathryn and her friend to our favorite frozen yogurt place the following afternoon. (Can you hear the Fun Mama points already starting to add up? Cha-ching!)
While her friend was still here, Kathryn noticed that a new iris color had opened up, so she excitedly rushed outside and told her friend all about irises and how bees get pollen, and the girls examined the insides of the flowers. I love how excited she was to share nature study with her friend!
The spring weather has been delightful.
Lacy the WonderDog got in on the fun, too. This is her happy face because she LOVES to run, and is even happier when someone runs with her!
I bought Kathryn nearly a whole new wardrobe (or so it seemed) because she’s been growing like a weed and nearly nothing from last summer fit her anymore! This earned me more Fun Mama points, not just because I bought her stuff, but because we spent time finding things that she likes AND that are comfy, and we had fun doing it.
We shopped at Hobby Lobby to restock our craft supplies, and I’m hoping to do a little art project this afternoon. Yesterday we baked a pound cake — my grandmother’s recipe — and then took a big hunk over to my aunt and my grandmother. Gran still loves that cake with a good cup of coffee, but it’s too hard for her to bake like that anymore. We’re blessed that they live just a half-mile away from us, and I want to make a point of visiting them more often. There’s simply no good excuse not to. (Pound cake = points; letting Kathryn help = more points.)
Between rain showers, we made sidewalk paint from this idea on Pinterest. Kathryn had a good time with it, but I think our sidewalk paint would’ve been better if we’d added more cornstarch; I’m guessing this might make it more opaque, so we’ll try it differently next time. Still, it’s a fun outdoor activity. A friend of ours did this, too, and said her toddler LOVED it. (More points.)
We watched a few movies together this week, and ate ice cream BEFORE supper. (Fun points!) I even got extra points for bravery in the line of duty when I had to kill two wasps (or hornets?) that got in the house one day! My favorite of the movies we watched was a 1995 version of A Little Princess, one of Kathryn’s favorite books. We also watched the musical version of Oliver Twist; we enjoyed it but it was very different from the book, even leaving out several main characters. (Movie-watching = more fun points.)
We continued reading-aloud from Freckles, and Kathryn has continued to confiscate my Kindle to read books like The Second Jungle Book and Pollyanna Grows Up. We finished up a few things we’d gotten behind on, and Kathryn made a new page for her nature journal. This got her looking back over her nature journal entries from the past few years, and she is more inspired to start back up with adding new journal entries. We used one of Barb’s free journal pages for this.
As it turned out, this week wasn’t really a week “off” after all, but more like a week of unschooling — which has been a wonderful reminder to me that it really all comes back to a lifestyle of learning.
It’s not about how many days I’ve checked off on my attendance form, or how many lessons we’ve done in any workbook, but it’s about creating an atmosphere where learning never stops: not when the school day is done, not when we’re on a break, and certainly not just because we grow up.
Even more importantly, this week helped build more ties between Kathryn’s heart and mine, and I’m learning how very essential that is, especially the older she gets.
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I love this entire post. ๐ <3
Thanks, Erin! Let’s hope I can keep up the Fun Mama momentum! ๐
LIKE! Your posts about being a “fun” mom inspire me to try harder. I so want to tie more heartstrings between my children and me. They grow up so, so fast!
Yes, they do grow up SO fast!!! Seems like my 11yo was just a preschooler the other day!
I LOVE your paragraph at the end about what learning is REALLY about! I have been struggling of late between being more relaxed and letting the kids follow their interests more and more and getting our curriculum (i.e. textbooks and workbooks) completed before the end of our year. And as well as building those “heart bonds”. My daughter is struggling in a lot of ways with her attitude…and I think I’ve finally figured it out: she needs more time with me to talk and share without the interruption of brothers! That time together is SO important! How wonderful that she… Read more ยป
Yep, I can tell a huge difference in attitude based on whether I’ve been intentional about building bonds recently or not! Big incentive to keep doing it!
Fun, fun, fun! Love all those smiles plus ice cream before supper ๐ Yes, our week was more like unschooling too. Just fun learning and taking advantage of the great weather. Super week y’all had!
It has been GORGEOUS weather, hasn’t it!?!
I love this – “As it turned out, this week wasnโt really a week โoffโ after all, but more like a week of unschooling” That’s really homeschooling!!
I agree! As it should be, without so much box-checking! (Reminding myself!)
I love your pictures, what kind of camera do you use?
Thanks! It’s a professional model Nikon. Not sure what camera you use, but I’d suggest getting a decent DSLR if you don’t yet have one, and learning how to shoot manual if you’re not already comfortable with that. ๐
I LOVE the fun mom stories. It’s just me and my daughter a lot of the time and sometimes I forget to be a fun mom. We too had the fun bonding time buying a whole new wardrobe just a couple weeks ago. That always rates high on the fun list.
How old is Lacy the wonder dog? Love all your pics & I think you scored big on the Fun Mama points!
Lacy just turned 5 in February! We’ve read that greyhounds are long-lived so we’re hoping that’s the case for her!!!
We just started reading A Little Princess this week as a read aloud…maybe we’ll have to check out that movie version after we read the book. I never read it growing up, but just tonight a friend was telling me it is one of her kids’ favorite books too. We’re only three chapters in, so I’m not really “into” it yet, but it’s making me excited to get more into the story.
Congrats on so many “fun points” this week! ๐
Thanks! Yes, there are at least three versions of that movie that I know of, and this 1995 version was my favorite.
What a lovely week you had! I am trying to be intentional about building bonds too. Sometimes it’s so hard to know how to do it though, since each child is so different!
Yes, Annie Kate! I have figured it out pretty well with Kathryn but still learning with Lindsey! Even though I know what works with Kathryn, though, I do still have to remember to be intentional about it. It’s so easy to get sidetracked!
This is awesome, Jamie! What incredible memories you were making with your daughter! ๐ You are inspiring me to do more of the relaxed homeschooling. I need to keep working on the mentality that it isn’t how many pages or blocks are checked off, but sometimes, that is really hard to do! ๐ I hope you and your family have a very blessed Easter! Thanks for visiting my blog and for your kind comments!
Lisa,
I’m a list-maker and box-checker by nature but I am working hard to overcome that!!
I love how into the Nature Study she is–wow! that is definitely a great recommendation to start a nature study! Shopping for clothes, frozen yogurt, sleepovers…sounds like a great week!
I keep having to remind myself that nature study doesn’t have to be planned and structured. It can be, and can be wonderful that way, but it can also just happen naturally and I try to go with the flow and encourage it.
What a perfectly wonderful week!!
It is amazing how much we learn on our weeks “off.” ๐ I stopped by from Weird, Unsocialized Homeschooler, and noticed that you have a Kathryn. I have a Kathryne, so I love the less than usual spelling. ๐
Love your beautiful week! Looks like you had a lot of fun together building your relationship and cultivating a learning lifestyle:)
It sounds like you had a really wonderful week! We are taking this coming week off and I’m hoping to earn some Fun Mama points of my own ๐
Definitely a fun week! You’d get all my points.
Janet