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Why is Adoption So Important?

10 Days of Adoption at See Jamie Blog

Current statistics say there are an estimated 163 million orphans in the world.

Try for just a moment to wrap your mind around this: if you wanted to look into the face of each and every orphan for just ONE second, it would take more than FIFTY years to do so.

Each year more than 20,000 children age out of the U.S. foster care system without being adopted. That means they enter adulthood with no support, no family, no dad to walk a girl down the aisle, no man to model being a father, no home to go to at the holidays… This happens here in the States, but all over the world, too. A friend who adopted a child from Russia told of driving through the town near the orphanage and seeing the young teen girls, the ones without families and without a way to support themselves, lining up for men to come pick them up for prostitution services. The interpreter explained to my friends that this was typical for the girls who aged out of the system there; the boys didn’t fare much better, as most ended up in gangs.

Friends, this is NOT okay. I don’t believe every person is called to adopt, but every one of us who claim to be Christians are called to care for orphans. For those that are not Christian, perhaps this mandate from God doesn’t apply to you, but these statistics are no less heartbreaking, and you can make a difference!

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There are SO many ways you can care for the orphans of the world, even if you never adopt! A few ways you can join in this mission:

Consider contributing financially to another family’s adoption expenses.
Pray for orphans around the world, and pray for adoptive families.
– Provide a supportive, non-judgmental listening ear for adoptive parents.
– Help raise awareness of the needs of orphans around the world.
Respite care! This means being trained and certified to care for foster/adoptive children temporarily, which allows foster/adoptive families a chance to rest and reconnect so they can continue to devote time and love and energy to the children.

–> Even if you are not currently considering adoption, I do hope you’ll read all of my 10 Days of Adoption posts to learn more, and to know a bit better how to help or encourage adoptive families or friends who may be considering adoption. You can always ask questions here in the comments or by email.

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Dawn

Wow! I haven’t had that visual before. We adopted two children from the U.S. foster care system a few years ago. Another way to help if you don’t want to adopt is to be a mentor for kids who are aging out of the foster system. A mentor can help a young adult find a job and get established in the world.
Blessings,
Dawn

Nicole

That’s a GREAT idea!

Jason

I wanted to say I was adopted by a wonderful Christian family when I was just over 3yrs old. My birth mother had given me up at around age 2. Just after I got married we were able to find her and make contact with her. Largely this was to get a more complete medical history. But she had always wanted to know I wound up in a good home, and was thankful I had. I don’t believe she ever came to know Christ before her death about 2 years ago, but She was so very thankful I did have… Read more »

Jason

You’re welcome, I admit I have had a good experience from it and will answer as best I can any questions anyone has.

Nicole

As an adoptive mom, I really appreciate this comment. My daughter was abandoned and I doubt she will ever be able to find her BM and it breaks my heart. But if I’m honest, it’s a little of a relief too. My son’s BM is around and it is something that I pray God will give me courage for as he grows up.

Ellen

Great post, Jamie! While we don’t feel called to adopt, I want to learn more about how I can help, anyway, in any way. I look forward to your future posts!

Laura

Ya!y!!! I’m so glad you talked about this! Awesome!

Rebecca

I know that I serve an Awesome God. I know this and yet he still finds ways to amaze me! Every time I have a bridge to cross in my life I first attempt to cross it by myself before asking for God’s help. And then, I still don’t listen! Half a dozen more times of failing on my own and I finally say DUH! “Give it to God!” My husband and I have a 4 year old daughter (biological). We are licensed foster parents and have hosted an exchange student from Germany. We have spent the last four years… Read more »

Nicole

I totally get your concerns about providing all the extras for your daughter. I think it’s a normal concern and for sure one that I had. We adopted our daughter and I wanted to give her EVERYTHING she wouldn’t have had if she hadn’t been adopted. But when I got the call for the baby that is now her brother I realized that God provides! ALWAYS! Josie will have everything she needs AND we are teaching her about living out God’s plan in a real way. We have had huge financial blessings that can only be explained by God providing… Read more »

Nicole

In Georgia, there are almost more churches then orphans! Can you believe that?!?! Just ONE family from every church adopting would END the orphan crisis in our state!

Sharla

I love your heart for the orphan Jamie. It’s obvious from the comments that God is using you to help others and to open other hearts. Adoption has been the single best thing I have ever done in my life. It has not been without its challenges, but it has been the greatest blessing! I hope that through this series, others would choose this path.

Stacey

Thank you for this post. My husband and I have been married since 1995 and have longed for kids of our own. I have a daycare in our home to help appease the desire to be a mom. We’ve been on the adoption journey for 3 1/2–4 years now. We’re trying to be patient and wait on God’s timing, but it’s hard!

Here are our adoption websites. Please help us get the word out:
http://www.adoptionnetwork.com/waitingfamilies/show.html/6934/photos
(Watch our YouTube video)

http://www.theadoptionfoundation.com/adoption-unplanned-pregnancy-waiting-families-profile.html?id=7150

http://www.courageouschoice.com/album.php?id=6534

http://www.adoptionspacebook.com/view_photos.html?id=7150

Jen

The suicide rate for those that age out of orphanage care is astounding, it’s probably similar in the foster care system. So sad and so frustrating. Thanks for pointing out many ways that people can help even if they are not called to adopt, and I don’t believe everyone is called to adopt, but they certainly are called to help in some capacity. Prayers are more important than we can imagine!

Kara @ The Chuppies

I LOVE that you wrote this series (clearly I’m about a week behind in reading along). BUT–I just want to say that we were so so supported on both of our adoptions by those around us and what you wrote here is really true–God may not be asking each person or each family to adopt–but the impact of coming along side an adoptive family in prayer, with financial support, with love…it is HUGE. Both of our adoptions brought both joys and sorrows…I honestly wonder how we could-would have made it without the huge sense of love and support and prayer… Read more »

marilynn

Hi Jamie Orphan is a word that has a primary definition of a minor whose parent or parents are dead. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/orphan “Definition of orphan 1 a child deprived by death of one or usually both parents He became an orphan when his parents died in a car accident” You mentioned that there are 163 million orphans world wide and that surprised me. I checked and https://www.unicef.org/media/media_45279.html Unicef’s number is 17 million minors world wide have lost both parents and meet the definition of a true. 123 million have lost one parent and are in the care of their living parent… Read more »