A Year of No Clothes
Okay, okay… so the title isn’t entirely accurate. I’m not advocating becoming a nudist or anything. The title really ought to say “A Year of No NEW Clothes” but that wasn’t as entertaining. 😉
The challenge: no new clothes for a year.
Last summer, a friend of mine announced that she had decided not to buy herself clothes for one year. My first thought was how hard that would be, but as I thought more about it, I decided that shouldn’t be difficult at all, and I should do it, too. Honestly, ten years ago, this would have been impossible for me — and I have since shredded the credit card bills that proved it. (I’ve come a long way in the frugality department, friends!) I’m no longer a big spender, but I do enjoy finding a cute new outfit and a really good bargain every now and then.
Finally my year is up.
It’s been easier than I thought — and harder than I thought!
(In the interest of full disclosure: I said before I started that new undergarments were allowed because I’m just not going to wear ratty undies if I can possibly help it!)
I did cheat make a few exceptions along the way:
- I didn’t decide beforehand if shoes counted, and did buy a few new pairs this year: one comfy pair for wearing when we shoot weddings (which I consider a necessity!), and two new pairs that were not truly necessary.
- I had zero workout clothes, so I allowed myself two pairs of workout shorts and two workout shirts. But both workout outfits together totaled less than $30 and made me just a little more motivated to get walking!
- I bought a $12 dress at Walmart to serve as a cover-up for my swimsuit so I don’t have to traipse around in my swimsuit when I’m not actually in the water.
- AND I bought two shirts from Union 28 Marriage Apparel when a discount code appeared two weeks before my anniversary. These weren’t needed, but my husband got a kick out of them, and that’s definitely worth something!
But finally, I caved in the final month of this year of no new clothes. I bought three dresses at TJ Maxx (all under $14 each), plus a skirt and a shirt at the thrift store. Arguably, those thrift-store items aren’t “new” but they are new to me, so it’s still cheating.
So — what have I learned from this experiment?
In short, I don’t need nearly as much as I think I do. Most of my so-called needs are really wants. Much of my shopping is simply habit; I found myself in so many clothes-buying situations throughout the year that I finally had to change some of my habits just so I wasn’t taunting myself. How silly is that? But it opened my eyes to how my habits affect my choices. I think many of us do that with a lot of different things.
Buying clothes is not a sinful activity that I need to give up. But as with all things in the life of someone who calls themselves a follower of Christ, I have to continually re-evaluate to make sure I’m doing things for the right reasons.
Have you ever done anything like this? What did you learn from it?
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Ohh, I love the idea of no new clothes for a year. I will have to think about that one.
I really agree with your comment about walking around in front of men (and boys) in our swimsuits. That’s why last year I decided to make some modest ones. I love them and feel so comfortable in all situations, now! Here is my post about them….. andersonfamilylovejoypeace.blogspot.com/2010/07/sewing.html
Good for you! I reckon that these ‘exemptions’ were justified 😉 I have hardly bought any clothes in the past two years, simply because of financial constraints. Sometimes, the habit is the difficult thing to break… Now, I don’t ‘have a wander’ through a clothes shop; or go onto clothing websites and ‘browse’…. it just doesn’t occur to me. Having said that, if I *do* happen to be on the mainland (of Scotland – we live on an island) and I happen to ‘land’ in one of these shops….ooooh, it’s hard not to buy! I know this though: I need… Read more »
I have found that purchasing pieces that stretch things I already have is a way to get around purchasing too many clothes. A classic skirt that even costs a little more but will go with shirts and jackets you already have makes the budget happy. My daughter stretches her clothing budget by finding or making great accessories. Loved your post…
We are new jumpers onto the need vs. want train. Congratulations on your year! May have to try this one.
Hi, In 2007 I wrote an article about the environmental impact of fast fashion and I am wondering what prompted your intention to stop buying clothing for a year. I am planning a follow up of the original article and it would be useful to know from bloggers who have (or pledged to) stop buying clothes for a year (or more). Please let me know if environmental concerns played a role in your decision and if you have seen the article that I wrote. Please write to me at extrachi@gmail.com Thank you. Luz The article I wrote can be found… Read more »
Luz,
Actually my original motivation was based on the challenge in David Platt’s book “Radical.” He doesn’t mention clothes, but issues a challenge to sacrifice monetarily in order to put that money to better use. In my case, we started sponsoring a Compassion International child around the same time (and continue to do so), so I guess that’s where my clothes money went.
I could go years without buying new clothes. Actually, I probably have! Fact is, I’ve been feeling guilty lately that I don’t care enough about my appearance. Books, on the other hand… That’s where my needs vs. wants issues begin and end.
Love the shirt!
I’m proud of you. The Lord has had us living among the poor for 9 years now and I’ve learned to give up more than new clothes. I have two pairs of shoes–winter and summer. I wear them until they literally fall apart. When you hang out with the homeless, you definitely grow in your definition of “need.”
Wow, Lee! That’s a major reality check: one of those things I “know” but tend to forget in everyday life. Thanks for the reminder!
I’ve never been a big spender on clothes (maybe $200-300 a year), but recently realized that I was buying more than I needed. For the last few months, I’ve consciously chosen not to even try to shop (and yes, undergarments are the exceptions, as they’re necessities)! I’m working on getting my wardrobe down to two weeks’ worth of clothing (the time I go between washes) for each season. Of course, some clothes work for more than one season, but I figure that’s all I really need. Of course, if we really get down to what I need, I wouldn’t need… Read more »
I almost never buy new clothes. Not that it wouldn’t be nice, but we have financial constraints, and new clothes for me never feels like it should be a priority. I did buy a few new things last year before we went to the beach, because I was pregnant and didn’t have any beach-worthy wear that would fit over my belly! 😉 I am still wearing some of the same clothes I wore in high school 10+ years ago! lol. I actually have a pair of shorts on right now I bought for drum major camp back in the day!
ooooo….love Union 28! That’s maybe not the message I’m “supposed” to be getting from this, but where did you get the discount code?
The discount code was on We Are THAT Family, but sometimes I get discount codes by email since I’ve ordered from there before!
Funny, I’ve been thinking about the same thing this past week. It may be difficult because I am slowly loosing weight, but I have a sewing machine and I can remake for nothing, so why not. I don’t know if I’ll make it but I do intend to try.
You are an inspiration.
Carol ,
I need to make friends with my sewing machine so I can re-work or make some things myself!
I’m impressed you went so long with so little, Jamie. I recently accepted a vegan challenge. I gave up meat, dairy, and eggs for the month. It was hard; I cheated a few times. I learned that my needs are few compared to my wants. I can be healthy without the extras that most of us take for granted while most of the world lives without extras on a regular basis. Also, my sinus issues went away. I had been struggling with sinus infections for so long and really wanted to avoid the surgery suggested by my dr. What do… Read more »
I like this idea. Good for you.
Jamie, when I saw this I thought it might be difficult, but then I thought of something that tempts me even more than clothes……books! Now THAT would be a challenge for me and honestly, I don’t know how long before I would fall completely off the wagon!
I’m giving this some thought:)
In addition to my first comment, I now have purchased a “My marriage still rocks” t-shirt! Thank goodness I haven’t started my year of no new clothes yet!
I remember thinking this was a great idea back at the beginning of you starting. I love that you made it through! I did something not quiet as extreme but still life and pocketbook changing. I decided on a number of pieces of clothing that are allowed to live in my closet. If I bring something home then something has to go. I really like most of my clothes so the idea of getting rid of something in order to get something new will stop me from buying. It has shown me how much extreme excess I had just in… Read more »
I like your idea of only having X number of items. Been considering doing something like that since we talked about it that day.